I ask the following question and would like some serious answers and advice, if you'd be so kind.
Is it possible for a man to really be bisexual?
Is it possible for a man to really be bisexual?
As some of you may know, I had a problem a few months ago. I wanted to be set up with a guy I assumed was straight. I later was told that he considered himself bi. My feeling is that I don't really care. I mean, if he's into women, then that's fine, right?
I found this article while reading the Independent Gay Forum (how gay of me, I know). I found it interesting. I mean, I have often heard from gay guys that men who call themselves bi really are gay--they just don't want to admit it. But this article made me think--can a man really be bi? Or are they really gay?
I'm not sure what to think. Now, it's not like I want a life long relationship with said guy, but I just want to know before I make a total fool of myself.
But, if things do not turn out the way I'd like them to, at least I'll add another boy to my list!
2 things you gotta say:
Girl, are you trying to start a damn riot? LOL.
Can men by bisexual? To each his own, I suppose, but I choose not to date someone who calls himself bi. I'm not a science experiment or a training wheels set.
Ask him the question (and if he answers it honestly it will tell you something): Who do you dream about, men or women?
Anyway, late last week, I discovered I was in your blogroll. I've finally returned the favor (sorry for not learning this sooner), and I'm linking to you in today's post. Fun blog and I hope to talk to you more.
Anything in life is POSSIBLE. I personally think that there are FEW, if any TRUE bisexuals out there. People have preferences...and it seems that guys who 'admit' they are bi are often just putting their toes into the waters of the 'gay' ocean. They dont want to go in all the way, but they want to get their feet wet... sorry for the bad analogy. But I sort of know/believe that from experience. I once told a good friend of mine that I was bi. I knew it wasnt "just" bi... but I had not admitted to myself that really, truly, being gay was a possibility.... ironically that night I went back on my 'bi' statement and I just told her that I must be thinking wrong...lol...how wrong and scared I was, and how naive she was to believe me..... so in a LONG short answer: No. I think people are one or the other...GUYS especially. Psych. studies show that guys' sexualities are much more fixed than that of Women, for instance....... ok, i'll stop ranting!
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